Tuesday, April 7, 2009

simply freindship

We all want some good friends with us.Friends complete our world.
Life is well when right decisions are taken at right time.There are states, when we are not in a position to take a decision on our own i.e.we need someones judgement over it .A friend here with moral superiority ,will add his values to your decision making ,& definitely his/her opinion will result in a relief from the state of dilemma .
We learn a lot from friends .They make us now about the matters which we can never get to know being just with family i.e.being with them makes us bold towards life .
Well, there are friends ,with competitive feelings with you, from my personal experiences, i feel uncomfortable with competitiveness.
such ones , just want to talk about personal qualities ,rather than possessions.they even envy your social skills & relationships.they are smugs.
A friend never hurts your self esteem ,never tries to erode your confidence
in fact there are friends who motivate you towards your goals ,when others dissuades you at the same time.
We can feel sharing with a sincere friend ,who don`t use it as ammunition in future.A friend accepts your positive advice when you also take his advice granted.He/She listen to your woes,& even warn you for your sin ,
That's a real friend ........
It takes time to establish an understanding between two thinking,& we can feel the vibrations.
I would like to add here that ,there are no expectations with a friend very much far away from us ,except a feeling that there is a "friend". & it strengthens.
So- Puh-lease..... ,refrain your feelings of expectations with online friends,even don`t feel to be supposed to do anything from anyone.as to expect any thing to be done,near ones are more effective.
Well, what impresses me in a person to feel friendly with he/she is a good attitude(not imposing),& a rough`n`tough style.
As we all lack some good behaviour qualities,i.e. no one is perfect,so we should accept it without too much fuss.
A good friend is like a great asset .